Also, hi! I was wondering if you were still lurking the other day.

I never bought the idea that a woman was made less by liking sex or having it without commitment. Of course, if I were on the other end I wanted some commitment–to me. But that wasn’t about judging her, it’s just that I wanted more sex and the enjoyment of her company.

Sex is either okay or not. It isn’t okay for men and bad for women.

And sex is okay. It is intrinsically good. The fundamental of sex is that it is about the acceptance at a personal level of another human being. Acceptance is a form of love, or maybe a manifestation of it.

So, in short, you’re right. And those that look down on a woman for having guilt-free, cosmigasmic sex are wrong.

I luuuuuuuurve this. This exchange of blog posts is so fabulously Old School.