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		<title>e[lust] #41</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2012 18:22:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust].  Want to be included in e[lust] #42? Start with the newly updated rules, come back December 1st to submit [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Welcome to<a title="About" href="http://elustsexblogs.com/"> e[lust]</a> </strong>- The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust].  Want to be included in e[lust] #42? Start with the newly updated <a title="About" href="http://elustsexblogs.com/about-2/" target="_blank">rules</a>, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the <a href="http://elustsexblogs.com/feed/" target="_blank">RSS feed</a> for updates!</p>
<p><strong>~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.heyepiphora.com/2012/09/the-2-weeks-of-my-sex-life-i-lost-to-zoloft/" target="_blank">The 2 weeks of my sex life I lost to Zoloft</a> – <em>“My G-spot felt non-existent. My clit felt numb. The masturbation didn’t hold my interest, and my mind wandered.”</em></p>
<p><a href="http://bdswain.com/post/34276020139/babygirl" target="_blank">Baby Girl</a> – <em>“You fill me with a desire to learn so that I can teach you. I push you to trust yourself as I trust you.”</em></p>
<p><a href="http://pennysdirtythoughts.com/denial/" target="_blank">Denial</a> -<em> ““Not yet,” he says, pulling both of my arms back, leaving my clit screaming for attention.”</em></p>
<p><strong>~ e[lust] Editress ~</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://dangerouslilly.com/" target="_blank"> Dangerous Lilly</a></p>
<p><strong>~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://subreiskyem.blogspot.co.uk/2012/10/thoughts-contractual-considerations.html" target="_blank">Thoughts: Contractual Considerations</a></p>
<p><em>All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “<a title="FAQ’s" href="http://elustsexblogs.com/faqs/">read more…</a>” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!</em></p>
<p><strong>Thoughts &amp; Advice on Sex &amp; Relationships</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://beingblacksilk.com/2012/10/23/alley-oops/" target="_blank">Alley-Oops</a><br />
<a href="http://mollysdailykiss.com/2012/10/03/challenging-sexy/" target="_blank">Challenging Sexy</a><br />
<a href="http://curvaceousdee.com/2012/10/open-me-up/" target="_blank">Open Me Up</a><br />
<a href="http://atruthstoryat37.blogspot.co.uk/2012/10/how-this-blog-started.html" target="_blank">How this blog started</a><br />
<a href="http://lookingthrough.us/2012/11/speaking-of-nre/" target="_blank">Speaking of NRE</a></p>
<p><strong>Sex News, Interviews, Politics &amp; Humor</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.malflic.com/2012/10/04/how-to-pack-for-a-con-malflic-com-family-style/" target="_blank">How to Pack for a Con<br />
</a><a href="http://pervertedimp.com/2012/10/11/rape-culture-rant/" target="_blank">Rape Culture Rant</a><br />
<a href="/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-1/" target="_blank">The Female Orgasm: A Brief History, Part 1</a></p>
<p><strong>Kink &amp; Fetish</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://scarletrosevixen.wordpress.com/2012/09/12/ball-gag-safety-for-beginners/" target="_blank">Ball Gag Safety For Beginners</a><br />
<a href="http://thebeautyofsubmission.blogspot.com.au/2012/10/choose-one-word-to-describe-yourself.html" target="_blank">Choose one word to describe yourself</a><br />
<a href="http://thesindoll.com/2012/09/15/2370/" target="_blank">Drool</a><br />
<a href="http://www.domme-chronicles.com/2012/09/drawing-out-hurt.html" target="_blank">Drawing out hurt</a><br />
<a href="http://thatsmessedupblog.blogspot.com/2012/09/dirty-nasty-perfect.html" target="_blank">Dirty, Nasty, Perfect</a><br />
<a href="http://historyofbdsm.com/2012/10/the-evolution-of-a-new-fetish-veiling-erotica-at-tales-of-the-veils/" target="_blank">Evolution of a new fetish: veiling erotic</a><br />
<a href="http://pixelatedtoys.com/2012/09/14/it-was-always-a-trap/" target="_blank">It was always a trap…</a><br />
<a href="http://polykinkmonovanilla.blogspot.nl/2012/10/unnamed-erotica.html" target="_blank">“unnamed”</a><br />
<a href="http://www.leatheryenta.com/2012/11/06/the-panty-loan/" target="_blank">The Panty Loan<br />
</a><a href="http://vaginaantics.com/?p=857" target="_blank">Watersports: Not As Easy As It Sounds</a></p>
<p><strong>Erotic Writing</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://acuriousmuse.blogspot.co.uk/2012/10/a-writing-challenge-blindfold.html" target="_blank">A Writing Challenge – Blindfold</a><br />
<a href="http://dumbdomme.com/2012/10/about-to-be-devoured.html" target="_blank">about to be devoured</a><br />
<a href="http://absinthepassion.wordpress.com/2012/10/24/blow-me-away/" target="_blank">Blow Me Away</a><br />
<a href="http://husbandtwomindssexually.blogspot.com/2012/10/leather-fashion-fashionista-free-photos.html?zx=94a52ef49859bf8e" target="_blank">Girls’ Night Out</a><br />
<a href="http://www.omniwhore.com/hot-girls-with-gay-bodyguards/" target="_blank">Hot Girls with Gay Bodyguards</a><br />
<a href="http://sexualdestinies.blogspot.com/2012/10/leaving-you-wasted.html" target="_blank">Leaving You Wasted!</a><br />
<a href="http://phlye.wordpress.com/2012/11/01/lolita-twenty-twelve-part-sex-eh-and-bee/" target="_blank">Lolita Twenty-Twelve, Part Sexeh and Sexbee</a><br />
<a href="http://mydissolutelife.com/2012/10/questionnaire-how-to-handle-your/" target="_blank">Questionnaire</a><br />
<a href="http://ladypandorah.com/2012/09/08/retrospective/" target="_blank">Retrospective</a><br />
<a href="http://jerusalemmortimer.com/vampire-girl-14/" target="_blank">Vampire girl #14</a></p>
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		<title>Out and About 10/26/12</title>
		<link>https://joandefers.com/2012/10/out-and-about-102612/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Oct 2012 18:20:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joan]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Worthy things found over the last two weeks: If he doesn&#8217;t grab your hips and pretend to bone when you bend over for something, it&#8217;s not love. Or he&#8217;s mature and well&#8230;boring. — Chrisanna4real (@chrisanna4real) October 25, 2012 &#160; Write a sex story this morning.Rest of the day will be a crushing disappointment by comparison. [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Worthy things found over the last two weeks:</p>
<blockquote class="twitter-tweet tw-align-center"><p>If he doesn&#8217;t grab your hips and pretend to bone when you bend over for something, it&#8217;s not love. Or he&#8217;s mature and well&#8230;boring.</p>
<p>— Chrisanna4real (@chrisanna4real) <a href="https://twitter.com/chrisanna4real/status/261554276667650048" data-datetime="2012-10-25T19:46:13+00:00">October 25, 2012</a></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p></blockquote>
<div id="attachment_1084" style="width: 510px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="http://hardnipplesforever.tumblr.com/post/33848916221/held-up-by-her-fingertips-by-jonmmmayhem"><img class="size-full wp-image-1084" title="tumblr_mc3kcx4LjS1qb9lero2_500" src="/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/tumblr_mc3kcx4LjS1qb9lero2_500.jpg" alt="Held Up By Her Fingertips. by jonmmmayhem  " width="500" height="333" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Held Up By Her Fingertips. by jonmmmayhem</p></div>
<blockquote class="twitter-tweet tw-align-center"><p>Write a sex story this morning.Rest of the day will be a crushing disappointment by comparison.</p>
<p>— Shon Richards (@shonrichards) <a href="https://twitter.com/shonrichards/status/260791075348807681" data-datetime="2012-10-23T17:13:32+00:00">October 23, 2012</a></p></blockquote>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<blockquote class="twitter-tweet tw-align-center"><p>It makes me happy to know that right now, somewhere in the world, Gillian Anderson is still being hot.</p>
<p>— Shay D&#8217;Grey (@Hungry_Joe) <a href="https://twitter.com/Hungry_Joe/status/257755286939500544" data-datetime="2012-10-15T08:10:23+00:00">October 15, 2012</a></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p></blockquote>
<div id="attachment_1085" style="width: 510px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="http://erintheartist.tumblr.com/image/33877710802"><img class=" wp-image-1085 " title="tumblr_mc4bignqPh1ryxx17o1_1280" src="/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/tumblr_mc4bignqPh1ryxx17o1_1280.jpg" alt="Erin the Artist (click through)" width="500" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Erin the Artist (click through)</p></div>
<blockquote class="twitter-tweet tw-align-center"><p>Dinosaurs didn&#8217;t read. They&#8217;re now extinct. <a href="https://twitter.com/search/%23funfact">#funfact</a></p>
<p>— Jo Eberhardt (@JoEberhardt) <a href="https://twitter.com/JoEberhardt/status/259824430262403072" data-datetime="2012-10-21T01:12:26+00:00">October 21, 2012</a></p></blockquote>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>The Black Leather Belt has a <a href="http://theblackleatherbelt.com/how-to-fuck-in-a-hotel">handy-dandy guide</a> to getting kinky in hotels.</p>
<p>And, Monday was the very first <a href="https://twitter.com/search?q=%23writesmut&amp;src=hash">#writesmut chat at Twitter</a>, which I had thrust upon me. We&#8217;ll be doing it again on Monday evening.</p>
<p>Also found?</p>
<p>An eternal truth.</p>
<div id="attachment_1086" style="width: 425px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="http://xkcd.com/1124/"><img class="size-full wp-image-1086" title="law_of_drama" src="/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/law_of_drama.png" alt="The Law of Drama" width="415" height="271" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The Law of Drama</p></div>
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