Comments on: The Female Orgasm: A Brief History, Part 4 https://joandefers.com/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-4/ Literate Smut and Dirty Pictures Mon, 25 Nov 2013 13:17:35 +0000 hourly 1 By: Review of “Katie-bug” by Joan Defers | Lindsey's Tendency https://joandefers.com/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-4/#comment-1423 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 13:17:35 +0000 https://joandefers.com/?p=782#comment-1423 […] “Well,” Joan would answer, “you know this ‘gushing’ is really just pee, right?” […]

]]> By: Joan https://joandefers.com/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-4/#comment-152 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 03:42:17 +0000 https://joandefers.com/?p=782#comment-152 I can do an anatomy entry.

As for the rest, every woman is different.

]]> By: Van Knowlton https://joandefers.com/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-4/#comment-151 Thu, 29 Nov 2012 06:24:36 +0000 https://joandefers.com/?p=782#comment-151 Help me…I am an old man who does not understand anything about technology. I am not so ignorant as to expect that beautiful young women would be interested in me. However, I am, 68 years old, 6 foot 3, 195 lbs. , play golf 2 days a week, senior softball 2 days a week, do my own laundry, and think about sex the rest of the time…except when my kids and grandkids are here.

]]> By: Van Knowlton https://joandefers.com/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-4/#comment-150 Wed, 28 Nov 2012 23:41:27 +0000 https://joandefers.com/?p=782#comment-150 I find it absolutely amazing that with all of the medical sanners…etc. that we have we are still having a discussion about anatomy. I have read every book that I can in an attempt to please the ladies I am with. You ladies are just confusing me. Is the g-spot at the bottom of vagina…or is behind the clitoris on those ruffled ridges? What should I do..be rough or gentle? Bite your shoulder or let you bite mine? Is that squirt…pee or cum? If it is pee does it thrill you? You see…one of the things you ladies have not addressed is this…My job…and it IS a job I love…is to make sure that when we have completed making love is that you are satiated…that you are completely exhausted…that you want to touch your beautiful vagina and say…OOOO! Then I will need to kiss you behind your ear and say…Oh, my God!…that is the best loving I have ever had!!!

I don’t know what else to do…please help me.

]]> By: Joan https://joandefers.com/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-4/#comment-149 Tue, 13 Nov 2012 05:34:26 +0000 https://joandefers.com/?p=782#comment-149 Cups and cups?

]]> By: Rich https://joandefers.com/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-4/#comment-148 Tue, 13 Nov 2012 05:10:26 +0000 https://joandefers.com/?p=782#comment-148 I think you should dial it back a little, Joan. My girlfriend does ejaculate and it’s really a known quantity. And, she has to pee after she ejaculates. It’s two separate items.

But I agree with you that the very idea someone has to conform their orgasm to a standard is completely obnoxious. Try telling a man how he’s supposed to orgasm. Just try. And try and try. It will never work. Nature takes its course.

I think the broader lesson is that if a woman ejaculates that’s nothing to worry about or be ashamed of. Part of the beauty of lady parts is their variety. The many variations are wonderful and leave lots to be explored.

]]> By: The Female Orgasm: A Brief History, Part 2 | Joan Defers https://joandefers.com/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-4/#comment-147 Wed, 31 Oct 2012 06:56:45 +0000 https://joandefers.com/?p=782#comment-147 [...] Female Orgasm: A Brief History, Part 3 The Female Orgasm: A Brief History, Part 4 Share this: This entry was posted in Blog and tagged history of the female orgasm, sex in ancient [...]

]]> By: Joan https://joandefers.com/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-4/#comment-146 Wed, 10 Oct 2012 18:17:57 +0000 https://joandefers.com/?p=782#comment-146 OOOH! Or, the super-trained Orgasm Via Password club. “She comes every time I say ‘wiffle bat.’ Bow down, I r Masterblaster Dom. Anyone can be trained to come on command.”

I know a woman that claims to have an orgasm from the removal of cufflinks. I just smile and nod.

]]> By: Joan https://joandefers.com/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-4/#comment-145 Wed, 10 Oct 2012 18:10:47 +0000 https://joandefers.com/?p=782#comment-145 I really think the male response to this Ancient/Brand New squirting thing is, um, odd. I ended up reading a lot of threads about this, trying to write this entry, and seriously, that’s some of the strangest debate on the internet.

]]> By: Joan https://joandefers.com/2012/10/the-female-orgasm-a-brief-history-part-4/#comment-144 Wed, 10 Oct 2012 18:02:07 +0000 https://joandefers.com/?p=782#comment-144 No. I am still horrified. I ain’t gonna stop anyone from doing it in their own homes and all, but omg, all I can think of is infections.

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